Tori Stafford and the Facebook Rumour Mill

Facebook Message Board Shut Down to Prevent Spread of Rumours

May 20, 2009 Christopher C. Hofley

With the rumour mill surrounding the abduction and possible murder of eight-year-old Victoria Stafford in overdrive, are Facebook update groups doing more harm than good?

That appears to be the feeling of some close to the little Woodstock girl known as Tori, who has been missing since April 8 and is now presumed dead.

With the case grabbing national headlines since Tori first went missing, the little girl's aunt, Rebecca Stafford, started an information group on Facebook to gather information in an effort to find her niece. But as is the case with many unmoderated message boards that allow posts from all members, what was meant as a tool to locate the missing girl quickly turned into an outlet for rumours.

Moderator of Tori Stafford Facebook Group Shuts Down Wall Message Board

Following the May 20 announcement that two people had been charged with Tori's abduction and murder, Rebecca Stafford announced that she was shutting down the "wall" portion of the group to prevent the spread of rumours.

"As we've all heard, there has been police progress in this investigation," she wrote on the group's page. "Since we are not sure of what is happening, out of respect for my family, I have closed down the wall temporarily.

"The rumour mill has already been put into overdrive this morning and we are anxiously awaiting the answers to the same questions you are asking."

However, a search of the name Tori Stafford on Facebook returns dozens of hits for other groups, whose message boards remain enabled, dedicated to the little girl. While most posted comments offer words of support for family and friends, rumours continued to float in, which in many cases has caused group members to begin attacking each other.

"I heard (they) found her body, is that true?" wrote one member of a group called "Victoria (Torie) Stafford.

"They found a body but I heard it was male," came the response from another member.

Group Members Upset After Toronto Star Reporter Asks Questions About Tori on Message Board

A request in the same group by Toronto Star reporter Nicole Baute for "stories about Tori for tomorrow's paper" was met with hostility by some member's, who accused Baute of being "a little rude" and asking her to give the family time to grieve.

"Give the family and friends some time to process all this information (without having) to worrie (sic) about reporters wanting stories," suggested one member.

With the many different rumours and conjecture in circulation, Tori's father, Rodney Stafford, has elected not to pay attention to the stories unless the information comes directly from investigators.

"I'm waiting to hear from the police," he told reporters. "There's lots of stuff out there and I can't believe any of it until it comes directly from police."

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May 27, 2009 7:13 AM
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My little gift to Tori and all those who have gone missing before and after her.... please remember her without the names of the people who set out to hurt her!!! They took her life, do not let them take her sweet memories!!!

I no longer cry
But, I do ask why....
My heart no longer beats
As I lay here deep in my defeat!!!

I have not lived, I cry
As my lungs whisper, my last goodbye...
The pain is too much
For someone else's lust!!!

I want to run in the flowers above me
Not lie below, longing for someone to find me...
It is dark here
And my eyes slowly shed their last tear!!!

You never gave me a chance
To enjoy that first kiss or dance....
My life you held in your hands
And now my soul cries throughout the land!!!

Over here you fools
Dig deep with your tools....
Find me I cry
So, everyone can say their final goodbye!!!

Don't cry for me
Just find me and let my soul be free....
And think of me once and a while
Without getting a throat full of bile!!!

For, do not think of them when you say my name on your lips
Think of me laughing in cool summertime pool dips.....
Think of me laughing and playing
Not of my final laying!!!

Let your children run wild and free
For that is how life is meant to be....
Don't cry for me
But, live for me and hug your children when you think of me!!!!
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